Top 3 Words That Define Me
discipline
I stick to routines that reflect my dedication to health and growth. I eat the same breakfast, lunch, and dinner every single day. My roommates never fail to point this out to newcomers, it's become my signature trait, because it doesn’t taste good. It’s just that following a strict plan energizes me. The more I stick to a routine or a challenge, the more confident and alive I feel. You will find more about this, along with images and details of my diet, in my personal section.
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I take cold showers every day.
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I switch up my sleeping schedule whenever necessary—sometimes I’m up at 4 AM, other times I work through the night during exams. Either way, there’s always a routine I follow, and I never skip it.
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I am also known for having a massive appetite that surprises everyone because I am lean (I burn it all).
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I am vegetarian, I don’t smoke, I have never had alcohol, and I skip caffeine as well.
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These choices may sound restrictive, but they’re part of living a life where health takes priority over short-term fun.
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No FOMO, No Regrets
I don’t experience the fear of missing out. If something clashes with my goals, I won’t hesitate to skip it, whether it’s a late-night party or any plan that doesn’t feel worth the cost. However, I do focus on balancing dedication with connection. When free time appears, it goes to the people I care about, and I never feel the need to disconnect just to find my “me-time.” The joy of accomplishing what I set out to do keeps me going.
Building Mental Strength
Two core reasons drive my discipline:
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Dedication to living an impactful life. I want to prioritize health, personal growth, and a sense of purpose over temporary pleasures.
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A mindset that says I can do anything. I started with small challenges - cold showers, pushups, and so on. I never allowed myself to fail, and each success made me more confident. Over time, even big or strict challenges no longer seemed scary.
People doubted I could spend a month alone in Ithaca, especially since I’d never lived away from my parents before. But in my mind, 30 days was no big deal. This approach of seeking ways to test my limits and “tormenting myself until it no longer feels tormenting”, helps me grow stronger and adapt to whatever comes my way, all while focusing on staying the fun and supportive person for others around me.
Straightforward
I hate filters. If I’m doing something, I believe in owning it. Hiding or twisting my words feels like I am suggesting I am ashamed of my actions, and I refuse to live like that. Whether it’s addressing an issue with a roommate or having an awkward talk with my parents, I don’t shy away. I will say, “Hey buddy, this is bothering me, and I want to talk it out,” because it’s easier to deal with issues head-on than to let them become worse.
I also have no problem admitting that I have a bachelor’s degree in Computer Science but neither love coding nor think I am particularly good at it. Honesty is the easiest route - I see no point pretending. When people know I won’t lie or dodge tough topics, they respond with more directness and respect. It becomes simpler to adapt and collaborate because there are no hidden layers.
I understand that for many, opening up is hard. But in my experience, it removes confusion and stress. It simplifies life, strengthens relationships, and sets clear expectations. Sure, I do things that might make others judge me but I have learned that when you own it fully, it helps others be more comfortable with you, they know you will be transparent and upfront.
Influence/Persuade
I have always enjoyed psychological games, not in a manipulative way but in a way that sees how words and ideas sway decisions. Back in India, I was the go-to person for planning events and convincing friends who initially starts with a no to every plan.
Being direct and being persuasive might seem like two extremes, but they actually balance each other out and go well together like a perfect combination.
Loving the Word Game
Over four years of freelancing, I have dealt with people from all walks of life: rural influencers who are super dedicated or totally unorganized, wannabe influencers, big-league influencers, small brands with zero direction, established brands that knew exactly what they wanted, meme page admins coping with depression, students, professionals, business owners – a wide variety indeed. These conversations and the content world I was in, taught me how to understand mindsets and use words to influence outcomes. Marketing is my passion because it blends strategy with psychology.
For instance, a small shift from saying “You are wrong” to “Yes, but have you considered this?” can make all the difference. I also learned the lesson that presentation matters. Instead of advertising others to join the group, how about creating an exclusive opportunity that people want to be part of. Something that luxury brands are really good at. They don’t push the product itself, they promote the lifestyle, the ecosystem, the feeling of belonging to something special.
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At Zydus, I worked with managers and senior employees while being youngest person in the room and also enhancing the technical competency of the team. It’s not easy to guide seasoned professionals about something without seeming like a complete kid.
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At Cornell, in my “Business of Entrepreneurship” course, I was teamed with MBA students, and we used my business idea for the group project. They had more work experience than I did, so I had to be mindful about leading the project without seeming like I was overstepping. Finding creative ways to frame my input made the whole process both smooth and fun.
Over the years, I have created a huge amount of content and held countless conversations. In the end, marketing to me is about presenting ideas in ways that resonate. Whether it’s framing something as exclusive, grabbing someone’s attention or appealing to their higher aspirations, I love shaping content that drive decisions. Check out my freelancing section to learn more about my experience with this